Vutulaki wrote:Canuckster wrote:Vutulaki wrote:
Kids arent, the system here is such fucking bullshit and I can only imagine that in pussyville AKA Canada it's ten times worse.
They hide behind the "In the kids interests" line but just use it to push whatever agenda they have (normally pro mother)
That part of it isn't good, but fathers rights are starting to make a big pushback and be much more even handed here.
Yeah same here, its taken them 30 years and a number of bombings at the family court by dads but the penny is finally dropping that kids need dad just as much as mum.
I think these laws were made long ago when dads didnt have much to do with their kids upbringing, long days on the farm, going to war not being expected to etc but times have changed, even before I got custody I spent a LOT more quality time with the kids than their mother.
^^ lets hope you guys are right about a trend of more respect for fathers...
Of course I am biased here, but IMO my brother is way more stable and a 100x better parent than his ex, whom I think is quite crazyto be honest. He got right exiled when they broke up and his ex spun a hate-propaganda against him with the kids so he hasn't seen them in a super long time. The thought of his kids, especially the younger son being alone with their unemployed wacky feminist mom is downright scary.
He's got some court case coming where he can attempt some more normal visitation rights and schedules. We suspect the ex will spin lies to make him seem like a monster but hoping he can defend himself and the judge will be able to see through the bullshit.
Awful situations for everyone, kids should really be top priority although I think parents NEED to see their kids too. For 1 parent to take kids away from the other I don't think is right at all