Winnson wrote:Vutulaki wrote:so single hetero people shouldnt be able to adopt?
Single mother or father shouldn't be able to adopt a kid.
Fair enough, what about my kid's friends who stay over at our place under the care of this here single father? do you reckon their parents are playing with their kid's futures? bad idea? if it werent for the fun my kids have with them I prefer not to have the little cunts over anyway so feel free to be honest.
Winnson wrote:If you can't have them naturally as a couple, you shouldn't be able to adopt them.
So no IVF? what about men whose nuts dont work and need a sperm donor? do you think there's a greater chance of neglect or even molestation because they kids arent his own biologically?
Winnson wrote:Single moms are ruining children.
I tend to agree with this, my kids go to a school in an upper middle class area and there are fuck tons of single parent raised kids. The difference between those kids (including my own) and the school my cousin's kids go to is at ours both parents are always in the picture whereas at my nephews school in a poor area dad is out of the picture in over half the cases.
I think it comes down to income levels, example I make more than the average dual parent household does in Australia by a significant margin ($30K+) so do most of the single parents at our school (or they couldn't afford to live in the school catchment area). I guess we wont see how they really turn out until HS, kids below around 12 just want to please adults IME
It comes down to socio economic levels, id say my kids are getting a way better start than kids raised by low earning/low skilled parents who are still together (They have access to whatever they need, have travelled to 6 countries etc etc) but Im under no illusion that they would be better off if their mother and I still got along and lived under one roof.
Here's a question for you, if you and your missus hate each other and constantly fight and create tension within the household are your kids better off than if you split? I know I learned my relationship style from my parents who basically fought non stop for 20 years, only mellowing way after I left home.