Saw this on the OG
"My Dad's company employed a bunch of Indian guys, fresh off the boat (tech related) and I used to shoot the shit/bust their balls. Arranged marriage came up, haha Yada Yada
Homeboy went all Ghandi on me and said, "have you been married?" yes and divorced. "why?" I was young, I thought she was what I wanted but it turned out I didn't know what I wanted nor did she, we were too young, etc. He said "your parents have known you since birth, before you can even recall existing. They know you better than yourself. No one can pick a more harmonious mate. Harmony leads to respect, and last, love. You Americans have it backwards."
He also threw in the 50% divorce rate and general angry/bitchiness of American broads, but he already had me at hello...
Your wisdom is not forgotten, Ravi!"
Pretty much spot on. I reckon arranged marriages are good, if I have a daughter I will probably find a husband for her.
Arranged Marriages
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Vutulaki-san
Well statistically they last longer but are the women in them as happy as their western sisters who have more free will?
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Vutulaki-san
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Arranged marriages are the norm in history. Marriage was to consolidate power, unify resources, stop familial disputes (Peaky Blinders anyone?), insure the woman would have a man that could provide financially, etc.
The notion of marrying for love could be considered a largely recent Western construct. It's a romanticized dream.
If anything, making the decision to spend the rest of your life with someone while in love, i.e., under the powerful influence of hormones which can be a fleeting physiological and emotional state, seems like a Disney romance.
History has shown that most of us make very poor decisions when deciding to be in long-term relationships with."
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Arranged marriages are the norm in history. Marriage was to consolidate power, unify resources, stop familial disputes (Peaky Blinders anyone?), insure the woman would have a man that could provide financially, etc.
The notion of marrying for love could be considered a largely recent Western construct. It's a romanticized dream.
If anything, making the decision to spend the rest of your life with someone while in love, i.e., under the powerful influence of hormones which can be a fleeting physiological and emotional state, seems like a Disney romance.
History has shown that most of us make very poor decisions when deciding to be in long-term relationships with."
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Turanian Trashtalker
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They really have no choice. Just imagine one of them trying to score with a female on looks alone... lmao
Also east Asians need to go back to arranged marriages as well. I've looked at every single one of my siblings and close friends who married for love... The result is complete and utter DISASTER
The fact of the matter is, the average guy in his 20s judges a female by the level of arousal between his legs. Rarely does he ever think about long term consequences, or whether or not the female is suitable for raising the next generation. Maturity? Good genetics? Long term value? Who the fuck cares? AWWW LAWWD SHENEEQUA SHE GOT DAT JUICY FRUIT BOOTY
The only race that has partly succeeded with romantic love are western Europeans (and even they screwed the pooch big time... lol, just lmao @ feminism).
in fact they invented this concept and spread it throughout the world.
Go to any primitive tribe around the world and ask them if they allow two young people to fuck and shit out kids without any input from the elders in their society. They will look at you like you sprouted an erect penis from your forehead.
Also east Asians need to go back to arranged marriages as well. I've looked at every single one of my siblings and close friends who married for love... The result is complete and utter DISASTER
The fact of the matter is, the average guy in his 20s judges a female by the level of arousal between his legs. Rarely does he ever think about long term consequences, or whether or not the female is suitable for raising the next generation. Maturity? Good genetics? Long term value? Who the fuck cares? AWWW LAWWD SHENEEQUA SHE GOT DAT JUICY FRUIT BOOTY
The only race that has partly succeeded with romantic love are western Europeans (and even they screwed the pooch big time... lol, just lmao @ feminism).
in fact they invented this concept and spread it throughout the world.
Go to any primitive tribe around the world and ask them if they allow two young people to fuck and shit out kids without any input from the elders in their society. They will look at you like you sprouted an erect penis from your forehead.
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Also, the more sex partners a female has had, the more unsuitable she is for marriage.
This is a rule that cuts across all other variables. Doesn't matter what her IQ is or her level of education. Every single penis that has entered her destroys her value as a wife by several notches.
lol @ "I need to try out multiple people before I find Mr./Mrs Right". These idiots got it backwards. That female will be constantly thinking about the largest penis she has ever tried, or how many partners before her were better in bed. She will start fantasizing every time you screw up / displease her in some way. "What if I went with Mandingo instead of Chad? How different would my life be?"
Either way, something like 60% of white females have never had an orgasm from penetration alone. Women don't really need sexual satisfaction to stay mentally healthy.
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This is a rule that cuts across all other variables. Doesn't matter what her IQ is or her level of education. Every single penis that has entered her destroys her value as a wife by several notches.
lol @ "I need to try out multiple people before I find Mr./Mrs Right". These idiots got it backwards. That female will be constantly thinking about the largest penis she has ever tried, or how many partners before her were better in bed. She will start fantasizing every time you screw up / displease her in some way. "What if I went with Mandingo instead of Chad? How different would my life be?"
Either way, something like 60% of white females have never had an orgasm from penetration alone. Women don't really need sexual satisfaction to stay mentally healthy.
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For some reason the rep button does not work, but holy fuck can TT lay down truth bombs more eloquently than most.
My current GF says she has had one BF before me, could be true or not. The fact that she is nagging me to marry her seems to show that she understands the value of long-term commitment.
BTW I found a smart phone under my bed the other day so as soon as I figure out how to hook it up to the computer or can afford to get WiFi you niagaras are gonna get some pics of the weirdness that is my life. It would be sort of fun to get a western feminist on the forum, hen wouldn't last one thread though.
My current GF says she has had one BF before me, could be true or not. The fact that she is nagging me to marry her seems to show that she understands the value of long-term commitment.
BTW I found a smart phone under my bed the other day so as soon as I figure out how to hook it up to the computer or can afford to get WiFi you niagaras are gonna get some pics of the weirdness that is my life. It would be sort of fun to get a western feminist on the forum, hen wouldn't last one thread though.
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Vutulaki-san
My parents had an arranged marriage not in the Indian sense but my dad and my mum's younger brother were mates.
They got introduced then I guess dated for a while which sounds like a normal western style scenario but the intention of introducing them was for them to get married.
This is the importance of family being involved in such cases, family members dont think "Oh theyd make a cute couple lets get them both around for a dinner party" or in the case of males introducing friends "Man Bob would sure like to tap that lets all go out for drinks" with family both sides will be thinking long term.
Also all those dickheads crying about Indian marriages not ending in divorce due to the shame factor, is that a bad thing? If I relied solely on my western and Fijian values the gaedok would be long gone but that would be shameful for me so a family goes unbroken...Booo hooo
Western women are inherently happier than stay at home Indian mums? yeah riiiiiiiiiiiiiight....
They got introduced then I guess dated for a while which sounds like a normal western style scenario but the intention of introducing them was for them to get married.
This is the importance of family being involved in such cases, family members dont think "Oh theyd make a cute couple lets get them both around for a dinner party" or in the case of males introducing friends "Man Bob would sure like to tap that lets all go out for drinks" with family both sides will be thinking long term.
Also all those dickheads crying about Indian marriages not ending in divorce due to the shame factor, is that a bad thing? If I relied solely on my western and Fijian values the gaedok would be long gone but that would be shameful for me so a family goes unbroken...Booo hooo
Western women are inherently happier than stay at home Indian mums? yeah riiiiiiiiiiiiiight....
My girlfriends dad is the one who introduced her to me. I met him on a bus from Saku Nakhon to BKK. He was impressed with my Thai skills and that I helped fix the bus when it broke down. No illusions about me being wealthy at all, in fact my girl gave me 200 baht yesterday for a feed and a haircut.
Most Westerners have been thoroughly brainwashed and manipulated into thinking their culture is superior to all others. They will claim they don't but they are lying knowingly or not. This is why you see them spazzing out over the fugee situation in yourope.
Most Westerners have been thoroughly brainwashed and manipulated into thinking their culture is superior to all others. They will claim they don't but they are lying knowingly or not. This is why you see them spazzing out over the fugee situation in yourope.
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Vutulaki-san
My take on the refugee situation is this, single men stay the fuck home and fix your country. Women and children come on in but we need to give them the skills to self support once they are here, married men with kids is a hard one but I suppose they should be allowed to join their families.
I think the vast majority of refs we get here are single men which is suspect AF.
I think the vast majority of refs we get here are single men which is suspect AF.
They are the ones not wanted.
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