Shinkicker wrote:Masato wrote:^ Great, lololol
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No one posts like Edge G
Kids are home because of snow day today. No electronics rule. Must be doing something right cuz they were playing a duet on recorders and are now playing outside. Good kids. Wife says this boy is nice, she read some texts says he's sweet/funny etc
My heart is breaking.
My 14 year old son has a gf. It's hard, huh? They fall asleep together on facetime. It's sickening. Lol
It's hard to know when to let loose the reins. You want to shelter them from any harm but you also want them to live life.
I'm not looking forward to this first broken heart.
Hey Shinkicker
That's what I was lookin for, some comradery
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So you have 14 yr old son, I have a 13 year old daughter, and we live very far away from each other? We should hook them up, they could facetime all night and never see each other lol
I am trying to rationalize my fears of things that I did myself and have no regrets about. Its weird, I have this powerful desire to want my kids to be unrealistically good, it's annoying!
I think I am mostly hung up on sex gone wrong (ie; pregnancy, or unwanted sex etc... things that scar for life). But you are right simple things like dealing with heartbreak will be tough it their own way. Easy to get INTO 'relationships', but almost never easy to get out! How do they end these things as they grow and want to move on? I find lots of times people of any age get into a relationship because it feels good at the time, but end up being stuck to them past the point of value simply because they don't know how to end it or don't want to hurt the other person etc. Adults should know better but for teenagers these are complex and difficult lessons. I was always very picky about who I got involved with, every time I crossed that line growing up I always felt really stupid, lol 2 good friends got knocked up in highschool, it really gave me a reality check
I also don't know what boys are like these days, what with porn and everything. Am I naive/old fashioned to think its a similar scene than when we were that age?
Most importantly what do you think of Edge's solution?
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haven't even thought about drugz yet. I think that will be much easier for me to talk about/prepare them. My daughter is home sick from school today and just caught me havin a spliff outside lol