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Lil Mas's best friend died

Postby Masato » Thu Aug 18, 2022 12:26 pm

Yesterday. Brain Cancer. 14 years old.
He lived right up the street, our kids played for years, we even took him on some summer vacations.

I'd been carrying the kid to radiation while his dad worked for 17 days. Didn't help. He was just getting worse.
By the end he couldn't hear, talk, see, move, urinate, eat, drink, or anything.

He passed yesterday.
They called us right away, spent the night with them and some of the kid's family. First significant time I'd ever spent with a corpse.

I almost feel relieved that the kid is not trapped in that body anymore, he was frozen/broken for months, it must have been excruciating. But I'm sure others are only (mostly) feeling the loss

I can't imagine the pain his parents are in.
He also has a 16 yr old sister, now an only child.

Brutal stuff

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Postby Canuckster » Thu Aug 18, 2022 5:12 pm

Sorry to hear man. That shit sucks, is what took my mother
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Postby Masato » Thu Aug 18, 2022 5:50 pm

brain cancer? or just cancer?

The dad told me the treatment they have today in Canada of brain cancer is 50 years old.

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Postby Canuckster » Fri Aug 19, 2022 4:52 am

Brain.
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Postby Som-Pong » Fri Aug 19, 2022 9:55 am

Sorry to hear that. Death sucks for everyone but the dead.

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Postby Masato » Fri Aug 19, 2022 4:43 pm

Canuckster wrote:Brain.


OK. I now know the deal. I carried that kid's broken body for 3 weeks, watching it just stop working day by day.
His mind remained intact though, was lucid through all of it. Just stopped sending signals to the muscles.

Som is right lol ^^

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Postby Luigi » Fri Aug 19, 2022 10:46 pm

Thats terrible. I agree at least the suffering of the kid is over. Whats really tragic about him being 14 is he lived long enough to feel like an adult, but not long enough for people to view him as such.
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Postby Masato » Sat Aug 20, 2022 1:55 am

Luigi wrote:Thats terrible. I agree at least the suffering of the kid is over. Whats really tragic about him being 14 is he lived long enough to feel like an adult, but not long enough for people to view him as such.


Since his passing, several people close to him mentioned how he had specifically said on more than one occasion that he wished for a life just to be a kid, and free of adult pressures responsibilities. Just the childhood part, when life is innocent and easy and joyful.

That's exactly what he got. Except the very end of course.

Makes me wonder sometimes.

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Postby Edge Guerrero » Sun Aug 21, 2022 7:11 pm

- Sorry for your kid losting a friend. Nothing is garanted in life. The kid lived long enough to left a mark on those around him. One day we all are gonna be a picture collecting dust in someone shelf. R.I.P!
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Postby Masato » Sun Aug 21, 2022 9:17 pm

I've been asked to speak at the service Tuesday.

Never done anything like that before. What to say??
I have some ideas but I am a bit odd... lol


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