What is the Forum Consensus concerning the keeping of a Mistress?

[Som-Pong]

Sodomites belong six feet under. Not in schools.

[theraskal]

that's just it, after some HONEST contemplation and through the daily reading habit I came to the conclusion that one can't be complaining about teaching youths about PORN and/or LGBTQ if they are indulging in PORNwatching themselves as people care more about what one DOES than what he says

and one review of the OG will find the rampant hypocrisy displayed where FAUX CONservatives LUST over "soft" PORN in one thread then WHINE, CRY, and MOAN about debauchery in another thread and even supporting and VOTING for KNOWN DEBAUCHERS while criticizing the "morality" of the opposition

[Masato]

that's just it, after some HONEST contemplation and through the daily reading habit I came to the conclusion that one can't be complaining about teaching youths about PORN and/or LGBTQ if they are indulging in PORNwatching themselves as people care more about what one DOES than what he says

and one review of the OG will find the rampant hypocrisy displayed where FAUX CONservatives LUST over "soft" PORN in one thread then WHINE, CRY, and MOAN about debauchery in another thread and even supporting and VOTING for KNOWN DEBAUCHERS while criticizing the "morality" of the opposition

Maybe I am missing your point, but I disagree with the first paragraph. Someone can indulge in porn at home in the privacy of their home, and yet be outraged that teachers at public schools are teaching perverted shit to their children. Those are 2 very different ballparks imo. One is your own personal issues, the other is people messing with other people's kids.

No one can be 100%, one can criticize the 'morality' of things in this world while not achieving sainthood themselves. There are many levels to sexuality /debauchery. Its not all or nothing imo

[theraskal]

^it brings to mind the example of the parent smoking a cig while telling his cur offspring not to smoke because it's "bad fer ya"

1: he kNOWS it's bad

2: the kid won't respect the adult because people care more about what one does than what he says


if we want society to be moral then we have to lead by example ourselves. The children may be the future but they follow our example

[Masato]

^^ Good post. Makes sense

On the other hand I think it's destructive to make kids feel guilty about their sex drives, associate it fully with sin, or expect total abstinence/celibacy from them. It's not realistic.

Kids need to learn how to not be ashamed, yet not let it get out of control and cause harm to self or other.
But this is not the public school teacher's job imo

My kids know I smoke weed and have a drink from time to time, and at the same time I expect them to learn to be reasonable with their drinking and drugs. I'm not naive to think they won't ever get intoxicated. But I do hope I've raised them to not turn into to total junkies or drunks
Same with sex

We are human after all
Any priest etc that claims celibacy is super creepy imo and likely to have more issues than the average man who has a pint at the pub and knocks one out on the webz before bed.

[theraskal]

hmm...as for sex, "the birds & bees" don't need to be taught how to do it and neither did I

as humans what we do need, is to be taught and inspired to live good lives. My teachers did not teach us to be promiscuous and instead to live clean lives so that we wouldn't get some LOWrent STD

the problem with teaching kids that sex is natural and all that is it can lead to promiscuity, teen pregnancies, and STDs...and where do we draw the line...sex ok, PORN ok, boys in girls bathrooms ok, PDA in school ok, TGs competing against girls...choose your gender....willy-nilly abortions....it's an endless slippery slope

I'm thankful that in my school we were given the responsible message to live clean lives and there was more focus on the RISKS of sex like TEEN PREGNANCY and STDs

of course not everyone listened and not everyone's life turned out so well

[theraskal]

....and I would like to add that as for the LGBTQs, what should be taught is not promotion of LGBTQ but just some compassionate don't be a bully "love thy neighbor"

tolerance doesn't mean we have to accept or promote something and just because we don't promote something doesn't mean we have to practice HATE or be a BULLY

[theraskal]

also, I do wonder about the "celibacy" practice among religious folks too, but one could also view perving to PORN as "creepy" too

probably like how when one starts eating clean, after a while they are repulsed by unhealthy food consumption and find it repulsive to observe those junk-food junkies like me who enjoy a tasty pleasure

[Masato]

Great posts!
But I thought this thread was about having mistresses?

how do these recent posts fit with that?

[theraskal]

I will use Japan as example here. We can observe a PORNified society which also struggles with an aging population and LOW reproduction rate.....so one could connect the possible dots there to observe this as one of the many damaging effects of PORN in how it inspires laziness in the human mating process....easier to just look at PORN or rent a prostitute than to put in the effort to make oneself "desirable"?

and look at USA following closely behind where the MAGAtard PORNwatcher complains about how the ethnics are out-producing them as they go the way of the neanderthal. Those Ethnics are also observed to value the FAMILY support system and so tend to favor LARGE family units.

.....BUT I just saw some ad on the youtube about a new Kardashian type series featuring Muslim women, so there we can observe the nefarious "SEX SELLS" Elites attempting to find a new revenue stream by CORRUPTING very conservative traditionalist Muslim communities

so it is why, as a thought exercise, I considered to inspire discussion here and elsewhere, the matter of the mistress to test the waters of thinking and it seems in general that people find PORN a lesser evil than having a Mistress similar to how they may observe DIVORCE to be a lesser social evil than homosexuality......yet, I am of the opinion that PORN is the more damaging to society and that it would be far better for society for a fellow to maintain a mistress if his women requires it due to herself finding it better for the relationship for whatever reason and/or because she is not doing her job as a partner to satisfy her man's needs

now this does not mean I encourage people to do it if there is no need for it, then that would just be an expression of GREED, but if there is some LACK in the relationship, then a private "don't ask don't tell" mistress situation I believe is much better for society than the PORN industry